10 Small Gestures To Show Appreciation For Your Spouse
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The smile on my face when my husband says, “Today, we’re just going to cuddle and watch movies” says it all. Small gestures like these can mean everything in a relationship, especially when life gets busy. For couples with children or packed schedules, making sure to carve out that quality time can be challenging, but it’s worth every effort.
Ways to Show Appreciation Through Small Gestures
Showing appreciation doesn’t require grand gestures. It’s about the everyday ways we show love and make each other feel special. Here are a few small acts to share with your partner that keep the love alive:
BE SUPPORTIVE OF THEIR PASSIONS
One of the most meaningful ways to show love is by supporting your partner’s passions. Show interest in their hobbies, cheer on their dreams, and be there to share in their excitement. This act of appreciation strengthens the bond between you, showing them that their goals and passions matter to you too.
How to show support to your spouse
Be encouraging with your words and actions
Take time to understand their passion.
Be their comfort and strength, if things doesn't go to plan straight away.
Listen to what they're saying, but mostly importantly, listen to what they're not.
Be kind, be patient and stand in faith with them.
start the morning, with a nice warm beverage
Who doesn't look forward to a nice hot beverage in the morning?
Personally I prefer a tea, a hot chocolate or a herbal tea, but I'm sure a cup of coffee, is just as enjoyable! Especially when the weather is at the coolest temperatures and the thought of being tucked up under the duvet and snug in bed, it is pleasant to wake up to such sweet and fruity aromas.
Also, it is nice, having someone think about you, as much as themselves in the morning!
Show affection Through Physical Touch
There is no measurement to affection, because everyone displays and embraces it differently.
Affection doesn’t have to be elaborate. Sometimes, it’s a gentle hand squeeze, a warm hug, or a simple kiss on the forehead. These small acts of physical touch create a sense of comfort and closeness that builds emotional intimacy and shows love in a quiet yet powerful way.
My husband loves having, a tender kiss on the forehead or a warm and comforting hug. The giddy smile he reveals is so adorable and the sparkle in his eyes, just lights up my face.
Why is showing affection important?
It is like a gateway, that builds on; physical, mental and emotional connection
It can release tension and stress and bring relief and security
It can help, to maintain a positive relationship
However when it comes to affection, do not compare you and your spouse's type of affection to anyone else. Do what makes you both happy and find your own love language!
Give Compliments and Words of Encouragement
Who doesn't love, a nice compliment?
Waking a up to “good morning beautiful” never fails to make me grin like a Cheshire cat, especially if I'm not feeling at my best, in that moment. There are days where self love and care can go out the window, but having someone; who can uplift you, hype you up and remind you, of the Queen you are and how beauty sits inside and out, is beyond treasurable.
A kind word at the right moment can mean everything. Saying things like, “You’re amazing at what you do” or “I love how thoughtful you are” can lift your partner’s spirits and reinforce the love you share. Words of appreciation can uplift and motivate, making your partner feel valued and appreciated every day.
What types of compliments can we give?
I see that you're trying your best and I'm so proud of you
You are amazing!
I love being in your company
You are beautiful inside and out
You never fail to make me laugh
There are so many flattering remarks, we can present our partners with. Words are so precious and they can fill us with hope and happiness. It kick starts our day and/ or provides that extra boost we never knew we needed.
Words mean a lot, so speak sincerity, kindness and life, into your partner.
THOUGHTFUL TREATS
Sometimes, a small treat can make your partner’s day. It doesn’t have to be fancy; maybe it’s a favorite dessert, their go-to snack, or a cozy beverage on a cold morning. These small gestures show that you’re thinking about them and are grateful for the joy they bring to your life.
In relationships and marriage, showing appreciation through love languages, whether quality time, words of affirmation, physical touch, or thoughtful actions, enriches the love we share. These small gestures remind our partners that they are valued, loved, and appreciated—fostering a happy, healthy, and fulfilling relationship for both.
My thoughtful treat for my husband is a lemon cake, with some custard! I don't think, I can go wrong there!
I hope you enjoyed these ideas! Let me know what small gestures you do or would do, in the comments below xx
